Fight, Flight, Freeze

Fight, Flight, Freeze

Do you often question why your mood fluctuates so quickly?  Sometimes you think to yourself, “Why did I explode at something that seemed so miniscule?”  Well it’s because your autonomic nervous system is at work trying to constantly take in information and formulate a...
The Art of the Apology

The Art of the Apology

One of my favorite authors and mentors in the field of psychology is Harriet Lerner, PhD.  Harriet has written many books including New York Times Bestseller The Dance of Anger.  I had the pleasure to meet her at my Daring Way™ Courage Camp, and seeing both Harriet...
Learned Helplessness

Learned Helplessness

Learned helplessness was initially identified by Martin Seligman and Steven Maier in the late 60’s  after conducting research on animal behavior that involved delivering electric shocks to dogs.  Dogs who learned that they couldn’t escape the shock stopped trying to...
Getting Out of the Cycle of Codependency

Getting Out of the Cycle of Codependency

It’s an endless cycle of “I’m never gonna do that again” and “If something doesn’t change, I’m out of here.”  I know it all too well.  As an adult child of an alcoholic mother, I spent years trying to learn to set boundaries and appropriately emotionally detach from...
Grace During Stressful Change

Grace During Stressful Change

Schools are starting back up and the online learning scene via virtual zoom platforms has increased the stress level for both parents and teachers.  I’ve seen working parents struggle to find assistance in teaching their kiddos, and the options for daycare and...