Secondary Gain and Anxiety

Secondary Gain and Anxiety

High Stimulation and Quick Fixes In our fast paced world it is easier to look for the quick fix when it comes to anxiety. In fact, I am seeing an increase in anxiety numbers in both teens and young adults. Of course COVID had a huge impact on our lives, but this trend...
I Don’t Need Anyone

I Don’t Need Anyone

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the little voice in your head screams “I don’t need anyone” or “I can go it alone?”  It’s actually a pretty common belief system for people who are high achievers.  Why is that?  High achievers develop this behavior...
When You Feel Like You Don’t Belong

When You Feel Like You Don’t Belong

Today I’m writing about not only a theme that I have been seeing in my practice, but also something I have personally struggled with at times.  Sometimes the desire to be authentic feels like it’s in direct conflict with your authenticity.  Many of us have encountered...
Maintaining Authenticity In a Polarized Time

Maintaining Authenticity In a Polarized Time

Can you feel the tension?  It’s literally everywhere right now.  As a therapist I listen all day to other people’s stories of how they are being affected by the current events in our world.  COVID-19 has surely become a chronic condition causing increased stress, fear...
Polyvagal Theory

Polyvagal Theory

The Polyvagal Theory is the science that underlies mammalian connection and defense response…including human beings.  Dr. Stephen Porges first published the theory in 1994. The Polyvagal Theory is the first to illustrate the three distinct neural pathways which...
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